Floral Tokens of Friendship: Choosing the Perfect Blossoms for Your Best Friends

Flowers have long been symbols of appreciation, sympathy and love. But flowers aren’t exclusive to romantic relationships, they can also be gifted as a symbol of our love for our friendships. It's not always about a huge bunch of red roses; flowers are a sweet way to show how much we value our friends and all the goodness they bring into our lives.  

Let’s go through the many flowers that can symbolise friendship and help you decide the best one for any friend. 


Yellow Roses

At a glance: Popular flowers that symbolise friendship

Some great flowers for a friend are: 

  • Sunflowers: Sunflowers are said to be symbols of happiness, warmth, luck, and adoration. These emotions are perfectly linked to friendship, and in many ways should be how your close friendships make you feel. 

  • Roses: Roses are often associated with romantic love, especially red and pink roses. However, the yellow rose can be a symbol for friendship and joy, and even pink roses for admiration and appreciation. 

  • Gerberas (Gerbera daisies): Gerberas or Gerbera daisies are said to represent innocence, cheerfulness, and love, so they could be perfect for a long-time friend, perhaps a friendship that has lasted through childhood into adulthood. 

  • Hydrangeas: Hydrangeas are symbols of many different emotions and feelings, depending on their colour. Pink for heartfelt emotion, blue for gratitude and understanding, and purple for a desire to know someone better. 

  • Alstroemeria (Peruvian lilies): The Peruvian lily, a special and unique flower, has a more complex meaning. They signify enduring friendship, a friendship of empathy, humor, commitment, patience, and respect. This could be a gift for a long time friend who you can be honest with, or maybe a friendship which has had its ups and downs. 

  • Chrysanthemums: Pink chrysanthemums have a simple meaning of friendship, whereas their white counterparts symbolise loyalty and honesty. 

  • Tulips: Yellow tulips truly represent happiness and friendship and they are a good way to celebrate a new friendship. 

  • Freesias: Freesias are another great option and are symbols of thoughtfulness and trust. 

  • Irises: Irises symbolise a range of virtues—trust, faith, courage, hope, and wisdom. 

  • Zinnias: Zinnias, a unique alternative are said to symbolise enduring affection, goodness and fond remembrance, a perfect flower for a friend whose been a good friend for a long time. 

  • Daffodils: The cheerful daffodil represents new beginnings, joy and good fortune, a perfect flower for a new friendship. 

  • Campanula (Bellflower):  The campanula or bellflower is a flower of strength, and is a symbol of a loyal friendship, someone who has shown you unwavering support. 

  • Carnations: The trusty carnation is emblematic of a deep and lasting friendship, for someone who you can really trust. 

  • Gladiolus: Gladiolus, renowned for its sincerity and strength, embodies the steadfastness and resilience found in cherished friendships.  

  • Blue hyacinth: Blue hyacinth stands as a poignant representation of trust, loyalty, and sincerity, echoing the essence of deep and unwavering bonds in friendships. 

What flowers should you give to your best friend?

Choosing and presenting friendship flowers effectively involves considering both the symbolic meanings of flowers and the personal preferences of your friend. Consider your friend's favourite colours, flower types, and any specific floral choices they love. Incorporating these preferences into your selection adds a personal touch, making the gesture more meaningful and tailored to their taste.  

When it comes to expressing appreciation for a best friend, certain flowers hold special significance. For instance, pink tulips symbolise deep and genuine affection, making them an ideal choice for celebrating the closeness and emotional bond shared with your bestie. Meanwhile, yellow roses, often associated with friendship and joy, convey the warmth and happiness cultivated in a close bond. They signify the joy, positivity, and uplifting spirit that a best friend brings into one's life. 

Different flowers hold relevance in various contexts of gifting. When saying "thank you" to a best friend, consider flowers like alstroemeria (Peruvian Lilies) or pink chrysanthemums, symbolising enduring friendship and heartfelt gratitude. For celebrating achievements or milestones together, gladiolus could be fitting, representing sincerity and strength in friendship. In times of condolence, flowers like hydrangeas or blue hyacinths convey sentiments of understanding, support, and sympathy. 

Ultimately, the choice of flowers for a best friend should align with the specific emotions and sentiments you wish to convey. Whether it's appreciation, celebration, support, or solace, making the gesture more meaningful and personal. 

Red Roses

Can you give red roses or red flowers to a friend?

Yes, you can give red flowers to a friend, but it's important to consider the context and cultural norms. Red flowers, particularly red roses, are often associated with romantic love in many cultures, which could lead to misunderstandings if you consider the friendship purely platonic. To avoid double meanings, choose red flowers that are less commonly tied to romance, such as red tulips, gerberas, or carnations, and pair them with other colors or a mixed bouquet to convey a friendly and cheerful tone. A thoughtful note explaining your intentions can also help ensure the gift is received in the spirit of friendship. 

How to gift flowers to your friends

Selecting flowers for your friend is the fun part. You also need to consider how you’ll transport and present them without causing any damage and ensuring they remain in bloom. 

If possible, keep the flowers in water until the moment you present them to your bestie. If transporting a bouquet, secure the stems in a damp paper towel or use a water-filled container to keep them hydrated. Use rubber bands or twine to secure the bouquet. This prevents the flowers from shifting during transport and maintains their arrangement. 

Avoid exposing the flowers to extreme temperatures or direct sunlight during transit to prevent wilting. If you're driving, plan the delivery so that the flowers spend the least amount of time in transit. 
 
If the flowers come with packets of flower food, include them in the packaging or give them to your friend together with the bouquet. This can help extend the life of the flowers. 
 
Finally, to add that personalised touch, attach a heartfelt friendship note or card to the flowers to express your sentiments.